“The bathroom, the stairs, that rug. I know I should fix a few things.”
This book takes each room in turn and shows you what matters most, and what you can leave alone.
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A practical, room-by-room walk through your whole home: the bedroom, the bathroom, the stairs, the kitchen, the garden. For each one, clear and referenced guidance on what quietly puts you at risk, and simple, often low-cost fixes you can start today. Thirty chapters and 21 checklists, written to help you stay safe in the home you love.
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It probably is if one of these sounds familiar.
This book takes each room in turn and shows you what matters most, and what you can leave alone.
Most of the fixes here cost little and take an afternoon. None of them requires a renovation.
Begin with the room that worries you both, use the checklist at the end of that chapter, then come back for the next.
This book keeps circling back to one quiet truth. Most of what threatens an independent life at home isn’t one dramatic event. It’s a fall on the stairs, a stovetop fire, a bath run too hot, a medication mix-up, a heater left too close to the curtains. Each one is ordinary, and each one is easier to avoid once you know what to look for.
My friend Phil found that out the hard way after a fall. He was ten feet from his phone and couldn’t reach it. I wrote this book so that you, and the people who love you, can deal with the whole range of things that can go wrong at home, not just the one that happened to him.
— Ed
A few numbers, then straight to what you can do about them.
adults 65 and older falls each year, about 36 million falls a year in the US.
CDCmore likely: the fire-death risk for adults 65 and older compared with the general population.
National Council on Aging, citing CPSCa year in US medical costs for non-fatal falls among older adults, based on 2020 data.
National Council on AgingEvery figure above is listed in full in the book’s Fact References chapter. The rest of this book is about the fixes.
Each chapter stands on its own and ends with a full checklist for that room, so you never have to flip back and forth. Worried about the bathroom? Jump straight to that chapter. It’s there when you’re ready.
Plus a Foreword, Introduction, About the Author, Home Accident Facts, Fact References, a US phone number directory, an international emergency contacts reference, and a Quick-Find Index by topic. Thirty chapters in total.
Where this book names a product or app, it’s an example of a feature, not a recommendation. We don’t sell devices or take payment to feature them.
Four kinds of pointers run through every chapter.
Something you can do today, often in minutes, often for next to nothing.
The things that matter most: the ones I’d want my own family to know.
Gentle ways to raise a subject with a parent or partner, without anyone feeling managed.
A full room-by-room checklist at the end of every practical chapter, so you can log issues and tick them off.
Interactive checklists, guides and planners to fill in on screen, save and print. Each comes in a standard and a dyslexia-friendly edition, with every format of the book. The link to your download page arrives with your purchase.
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My Dad’s girlfriend, in her 80s, had a fall at home and didn’t tell anyone. She needed surgery on her hand the next day. My Dad has fallen so many times too — he’s stubborn and fiercely independent, but if he fell without his phone nearby, I’m not sure what would happen.
A neighbour who suffered from Parkinson’s had a fall in her bathroom. In the middle of winter, she lay on the floor after a shower for two days before I heard her faint cry and called for help. Her family ended up having to move her into aged care — the mobility she had left was gone.
Quotes are readers’ own words, shared with their permission. Experiences vary.
Every statistic and every “this works” statement in this book is checked against a credible, named source: government health and safety agencies, peer-reviewed research, and recognized aging organizations. The book ends with a Fact References chapter that lists the full citation for every figure. You don’t have to take our word for it. You can look it up. If we get something wrong, we fix it and say so.
The book’s Fact References chapter lists every source in full.
No. Start with the room that’s been on your mind. Each chapter stands alone and ends with its own checklist.
Most are small: better lighting, a non-slip mat, a rail, moving a rug. Where something costs more, the book says so and explains why it’s worth considering.
No. Falls get a lot of attention, but the book also covers kitchen and heating fires, scalds, medication mix-ups, electrical safety, power outages, and what to keep by the door for an emergency.
Yes. Many fixes need no permanent changes. Where a change would need your landlord’s agreement, the book says so.
The statistics and phone directory are US-based, and there’s an international emergency contacts reference for readers elsewhere or for family overseas.
Yes. The eBook lets you set any text size you like, and the audiobook needs no reading at all.
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This book shares general safety information. It isn’t medical, legal, or financial advice. For advice about your own situation, talk with a qualified professional.
Bringing up the bathroom rail or the loose rug can feel like criticism, even when it comes from love. This book has a “Talk About It” note in every chapter for exactly that reason. A good first step is our free one-page Fall-Risk Checklist. Walk through the house together, tick what’s fine, note what isn’t, and let the list do the talking.
Book 2 lowers the chance of trouble at home. Book 1 makes sure help can reach you if it happens anyway. Together they cover most of what worries people who live alone.
Medical alerts, fall detection, and phone SOS settings, explained plainly.
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